if the leniency is the halacha, why is it called a kulah?

Follow-up on the earlier discussions. It is clear by now that the default of halacha is mutar unless there is a real issur, and that there are legitimate chumrot. What is still not clear is the word “kulah” itself. The Gemara says koach dhetera adif, the...

what should you say to someone who is suffering

rabbi, a question about comforting people going through yissurim. the standard line people say is “Hashem does everything for the good.” between a person and Hashem that works: a person can tell himself it is for the best. but what should a person say TO...