||i want to add that it got to the point that not only men are wearing black but you can go to weddings these days and not notice there are women there. i just went to a wedding the other night and i was dancing in a circle of lets say it was 10 people and i was the only one wearing a different color ..... its gotten outa hand!!
hopefully bezrat hashem by my chasuna i'll write on the invitation colorfull clothing affair!!