||Reply: Allow me to apologize for Martin. He didn't mean to say that you are a bad person. He was just admonishing you for , what you call being "human", allowing yourself the comfort of "often" doing something wrong.
This is a reason why people should not give Tochecha. Because, it is not taken very well.
I'm sure that when Martin looks he in the mirror, he sees someone who tries very hard and sometimes, unhappily, slips.
thanks rabbi ,