||I have to say that at the Monsey Mikvah, I have had mikvah ladies ask questions but never ever not let me do what I do, the way I do it. Most of the time they just say, "is this how you always do it?" I reply yes, and that's it. 99% of the time they are very nice and don't do anything I don't want them to do. There is a checklist of "reminders" and the mikvah ladies just ask you if you read them. If it is feasable for a woman to come to the monsey mikvah, even if it is far, I highly recommend it. It is also one of the largest and most beautiful mikvahs I have been to. I even know specific mikvah ladies that won't do ANYTHING if you ask. If anyone is interested in contacting me for more info, AA, CYA you can give my email.