||Message: is it mutar for a 14 yr old girl and a 12 yr old boy to sleep in the same room in different beds if the door is not locked and there are other people in the house that can walk in any time?
what if the 12 yr old boy's 15 yr old sister sleeps in the room, can the unrelated 14 yr old girl sleep in the room?
Reply: It is not Yichud, but it is not allowed.
is it actually NOT ALLOWED or is it just not recomended/preferable? if i (14 yr g) am really colse to the family and the 12yr boy is practically my brother is it ok?