||One of the hardest trials of parenting is the shidduch scene. You only need one of the three people involved, the mother, father or child to be stressed out about their possibilities, to put everyone into a panic mode. Some people can sit back and wait. Others cannot. You are right that a 30 yr old is a bit too far, but sometimes he can be a bit immature and she can be a bit too mature and maybe it was 'meant to be'.
This is not an easy discussion