i hate people with a bad temper. they're always yelling and slamming doors. but my biggest problem here is that i also have a bad temper. i'd love to brake it, so maybe you can tell me what to do or read. simply any advice on this topic would be appreciated. thank you all for this site
I have read and given this book to many people and they have all thanked me for it. "Anger" by Rabbi Zelig Pliskin. A GREAT book.
In Hebrew you can read the Orchot Tzaddikim section on this. The key is to get to the bottom of your temper and to be aware of it. Then you will be able to control it.